# Không thể không: cannot help but / must in Vietnamese

> Không thể không + verb means "can't not", and so "have to, can't help but": Tới Sài Gòn thì không thể không ăn thử cơm tấm, you can't come to Saigon and…

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**cannot help but / must**

Pattern: `[person] + không thể không + [verb]`

Level: B2 (our estimate) · Register: everyday

Typed without accents: khong the khong

*Không thể không* + verb means "can't not", and so "have to, can't help but": *Tới Sài Gòn thì không thể không ăn thử cơm tấm*, you can't come to Saigon and not try broken rice. The two negatives make a strong yes.

It goes where *không thể* (cannot) goes, after the person and before the verb: *Em không thể không khóc*, I couldn't help crying.

It has two flavours. One is a strong recommendation or duty, stronger than *phải*: something is so good or so right that skipping it is unthinkable. The other is a reaction you can't hold back: the film was so moving that you couldn't stop yourself.

It's everyday but emphatic, the kind of thing you say with conviction. Writers use it too, often as *không thể không nhắc đến* (one has to mention): *Nói về ẩm thực miền Tây, không thể không nhắc đến lẩu mắm.*

Count the negatives. *Không thể ăn* means can't eat; *không thể không ăn* means must eat. For a plain "must", *phải* is enough: *Phải ăn thử cơm tấm nha.*

## Examples

- Saigon: Tới Sài Gòn thì không thể không ăn thử cơm tấm. | Hà Nội: Đến Sài Gòn thì không thể không ăn thử cơm tấm. — If you come to Saigon, you simply have to try broken rice.
- Phim cảm động quá, em không thể không khóc. — The film was so moving I couldn't help crying.
- Saigon: Chị ấy giúp mình nhiều vậy, mình không thể không cảm ơn. | Hà Nội: Chị ấy giúp mình nhiều thế, mình không thể không cảm ơn. — She's helped us so much, we can't not thank her.
- Nói về ẩm thực miền Tây, không thể không nhắc đến lẩu mắm. — When it comes to Mekong Delta food, you can't leave out fermented fish hotpot.

## Compare

- [Cannot: không thể](https://vietnamesebuddy.com/grammar/khong-the-cannot/): cannot
- [Can't help (feeling): không khỏi](https://vietnamesebuddy.com/grammar/khong-khoi/): cannot help

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